by James Killian | Relationships
You can be standing in the middle of your own full life and still feel like you’re watching it from across the street. You come home to a house with the lights on. There’s a wife you chose and would choose again, kids who need rides and homework help and...
by James Killian | Therapy & Coaching
Dark empaths are warm, perceptive, and tuned in to everything you feel. That’s exactly what makes them so hard to see coming. When most people picture a manipulative person in a relationship, they picture someone cold. Detached. Someone who clearly doesn’t...
by James Killian | Personal Growth
Six months ago you sat there on January 1st with a drink in your hand, maybe hungover, maybe not, and you decided this was the year. This was the year you got back in the gym, the year you finally started that business idea you’ve been talking about since 2019,...
by James Killian | Relationships
Everyone talks about AI like it’s a productivity story. Faster emails. A calendar that runs itself. That framing is comfortable because it keeps AI in the category of tools that help you get more done and then get out of the way. But that’s not where this...
by James Killian | Therapy & Coaching
Years ago, a client walked into my office, sat down, and told me she was angry with me. She had just been denied life insurance. The reason was a diagnosis I had given her years earlier, a diagnosis I was required to put in writing so her insurance company would pay...
