by James Killian | Stress & Anxiety
People use these words like they’re synonyms. They’re not. And the gap between them is where a lot of high-functioning guys get stuck for years without realizing what’s actually happening to them. Stress is your system carrying too much for too long....
by James Killian | Personal Growth
Most people talk to themselves. They do it quietly in their head, out loud in the car when traffic stops making sense, under their breath in the kitchen at 10pm, or full sentences in the shower while rehearsing a conversation they’re dreading. It’s one of...
by James Killian | Stress & Anxiety
A lot of high functioning men get interested in meditation for the same reason. They want relief. They want their mind to slow down. They want less noise. Less pressure. Less mental friction. They want to stop feeling like they’re always on. This makes sense. It’s...
by James Killian | Therapy For Men
If you’re a man who overthinks, you probably don’t call it that. You call it being careful, responsible, strategic, or thorough. You tell yourself you’re trying to get it right. You’re thinking things through. You’re avoiding mistakes. Sometimes that’s true. But...
by James Killian | Stress & Anxiety
A lot of people describe it the same way. They’re exhausted, but still mentally running. They lie down and start thinking about work, money, marriage, kids, health, unfinished tasks, and conversations that are already over or haven’t happened yet. They want...
