by James Killian | Relationships
Everyone talks about AI like it’s a productivity story. Faster emails. A calendar that runs itself. That framing is comfortable because it keeps AI in the category of tools that help you get more done and then get out of the way. But that’s not where this...
by James Killian | Therapy & Coaching
Years ago, a client walked into my office, sat down, and told me she was angry with me. She had just been denied life insurance. The reason was a diagnosis I had given her years earlier, a diagnosis I was required to put in writing so her insurance company would pay...
by James Killian | Therapy For Men
Finding a therapist should not feel harder than the problems that made you start looking in the first place. But for a lot of professional men, it does. If you’re trying to figure out how to find the right therapist, the search can get frustrating fast. You go online...
by James Killian | Relationships
Most dads don’t intend to be harder on their kids than they mean to be. It just happens. You snap. Your tone goes flat and sharp at the same time. What should have been a small correction comes out with way more juice than the moment called for, and later, when...
by James Killian | Personal Growth
From the outside, high achievers usually look fine. More than fine, actually. They look disciplined, productive, capable. They handle pressure well. They get things done. They are the people other people rely on, and they’ve usually been that person for so long...