If creating an authentic life were easy, everyone would be doing it. Sadly, life transitions have a way of pushing us off track with our happiness focused on extrinsic motivation as opposed to our intrinsic dreams and desires. So, why does this happen? When we are...
Personal Growth
How To Stop Beating Yourself Up
When was the last time you heard from your inner critic? You know, that voice in your head that constantly judges you, puts you down and compares you to others. The one that tells you you’re not good enough or smart enough and says things you would probably never say...
How To Boost Self Esteem
What does it mean to have healthy self-esteem? Some people think it means you are OK with how you look. Other people think you must accomplish something big in your life to have good self-esteem. The reality is, having a healthy self-esteem means you like and...
What Is Self-Esteem Counseling?
What exactly is self-esteem and how does it show up in our every day life? Self-esteem is the degree to which we feel worthy, valuable and confident in any particular moment in time. Without the proper skill-set, these feelings or beliefs can significantly affect our...
How To Improve Self-Esteem
Self-esteem is an opinion we have of ourselves; a way of placing value on ourselves as people. For many people, it typically fluctuates throughout our lives depending upon any given situation. Self-esteem is on a spectrum where having too much can be just as dangerous...
Why Anger Is Unlike Other Emotions
Of all the emotions, anger is perhaps the one that most people have the hardest time dealing with. This is likely because anger is not like other emotions. It is unique. In fact, a 2017 Mental Health Foundation survey of 2000 people found that 28% are sometimes...
Why We Judge Others & How To Stop
Chances are you were taught as a child to never judge others. Parents and teachers likely repeatedly said, "Don't judge a book by its cover!" And yet, despite our best efforts (sometimes), many of us fall into the trap over and over again. In today's polarizing world...
5 Ways To Learn To Like Yourself Better
Do you like yourself? When most people are asked this question, they say something like, "Sure, I like myself." But while their words may say they like themselves, what do their actions indicate? Are you comfortable in your own skin? Are you happy with your...
5 Ways To Deal With Anger In The Moment
Anger is all about expectations. We expect people to be kind and respectful and when they aren't, we feel anger. We expect our children to follow our instructions and when the don't, we get angry. We expect our government to have our best interests at heart and when...